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How To Contribute To Your Child’s Early Development: A Mother’s Role 

As a mother, you play a crucial role in shaping your child’s early development. These early years are  critical for a child’s growth and learning, and your contributions can impact their physical, mental, emotional, and social development. In this article, we will talk about how you can help your child during these early years and set them up for doing well in the future.

Being a mom, you have the special ability to shape how your child grows in their early years, which stays with them for a long time. Your presence and care lay the foundation for their growth from your first touch to the countless lullabies. Here we share some useful tips that can help you create a warm place, handle their curiosity, and create a strong connection full of love and understanding. 

1. Building a Loving and Supportive Environment

Creating a loving and supportive environment is the foundation of a child’s early development.

a. Bonding and Attachment

Brain Development

Starting from when they are born, being close and connected really matters for how a child grows up. Holding them close, cuddling, and answering their needs helps them feel safe and loved.

b. Establishing a Daily Routine

Consistency and predictability in a daily routine gives your child a sense of security and stability. Set regular mealtimes, playtimes, and sleep schedules to build a structured environment.

c. Active Listening and Responsive Communication

Babbling and Early Sounds

Listen closely when your child talks and respond in a helpful way. Encourage them to share their thoughts and feelings. This creates a strong bond between you and your child.

2. Stimulating Mental Development

Managing your child’s mental development during the early years sets the stage for a lifetime of learning.

a. Provide Age-Appropriate Toys and Activities

Offer toys and activities that increase your child’s curiosity and mental skills. Age-appropriate puzzles, building blocks, and sensory play materials are great choices.

b. Reading Together

Read Aloud

Read to your child every day, even from a young age. Reading together promotes language development and builds a love for books and learning.

c. Encourage Exploration and Discovery

Allow your child to explore their surroundings, ask questions, and make discoveries. Be their guide as they explore the world, encouraging their natural sense of wonder.

3. Supporting Physical Development

Promoting physical development is essential for your child’s overall well-being and motor skills.

a. Tummy Time

Sing and Rhyme

Try supervised tummy time to help your baby strengthen their neck and upper body muscles. This helps them reach important milestones like crawling and sitting up.

b. Outdoor Play

Encourage outdoor play and physical activities to develop gross motor skills and promote a healthy lifestyle.

c. Fine Motor Skill Activities

women and children are playing with toys

Offer activities that promote fine motor skills, such as finger painting, stacking blocks, and using age-appropriate utensils during meals.

4. Nurturing Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence is an important skill that helps your child build good relationships and understand themselves better..


a. Teach Emotion Regulation

Help your child identify and express their emotions. Encourage coping strategies like  deep breathing or taking a break when they are upset.

b. Model Empathy and Kindness

Show empathy and kindness in your interactions with others. Show them how to understand and respond to the feelings of others.

c. Encourage Emotional Expression

Create a safe place for your child to tell you how they feel. Let them know that it is okay to feel happy, mad, or sad..

5. Fostering Social Skills

Developing social skills is essential for your child’s ability to have social interactions and form positive relationships.

women teaching the skills to children

a. Playdates and Socializing

Organize play dates and social opportunities for your child to interact with peers. Encourage sharing, taking turns, and playing cooperatively.

b. Teach Conflict Resolution

Help your child learn how to resolve problems peacefully. Guide them through disagreements and help them find solutions that promote understanding and compromise.

c. Model Positive Communication

Set a good example by talking nicely to others. Your child learns by watching you, so try to listen carefully and talk respectfully.

6. Cultivating Creativity and Imagination

Creativity and imagination improves your child’s ability to think outside the box and approach challenges creatively.

a. Encourage Artistic Expression


Provide art materials and opportunities for creative expression through drawing, painting, and crafting.

b. Pretend Play and Role-Playing

Encourage pretend and role-playing activities that allow your child to use their imagination and explore different roles and scenarios.

c. Support Curiosity and Exploration

Answer your child’s questions and encourage their natural curiosity. Provide opportunities for hands-on learning and exploration of their interests.

As a mother, you have a unique and irreplaceable role in shaping your child’s early development. By building a loving and supportive environment, managing mental and physical development, and encouraging social skills, you set the stage for your child’s lifelong learning. Remember that every child is unique, and your most significant contribution is to love, support, and cherish your child as they grow and learn. The early years are a precious time of discovery, and by being actively involved in your child’s development, you create a lasting impact on their future.

This article is approved by Dr Sunita Nagpal, MBBS,DGO, GP and gynaecologist, Salubritas Medcentre & Dr. Minakshi Manchanda, Associate Director Psychiatry Asian Hospital.

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