1. Trust your instincts
You've heard it many times: there is no instruction manual for parenting a child. Of course, you may begin reading every book on "good parenting skills" in the hopes of gaining useful knowledge. But don't believe you're going into parenting without doing your homework. You may not realise it yet, but your parental instincts will kick in the moment you touch your child.2. Practice patience
Feeding, diapering, washing, and comforting your child will seem to be the focus of your life at first. Expect to complete all of this with very little sleep! You may see no end in sight, but be patient; this will not last forever. Things will change as your child grows, as will your routines and your life will seem different even in a few months.3. Expect stress
Becoming a parent is a significant life transformation. All changes, no matter how anxiously anticipated, involve some level of stress. And, despite our best efforts, we may have to modify our plans as we go.4. Join a new parenting group
It does not have to be related to your own circumstances. All first-time parents, whether single, adoptive, same-gender, parents of multiples, or conventional couples, share the same fundamental pleasures and anxieties.5. Accept help
Don't attempt to be a super mom or dad. Neighbours, family, friends, and/or coworkers are generally eager to assist if you tell them what you need. Just having an hour to sleep, wash, or go for a stroll while someone you trust looks after your newborn might give you a much-needed boost.6. Believe in yourself
You DO know what is best for your child. Sort through the piles of advice you'll get from friends, family, strangers, physicians, periodicals, and parenting websites. Try out fresh ideas that seem appealing to you.7. Forgive yourself
You are going to make errors. We all do. Nobody has all the answers, and "experts" often differ on "what's best for the baby." Babies' demands appear to alter on a daily basis; just when you think you've got it figured out, something changes. Allow yourself to continue to learn about your kid and your bond with him/her on a regular basis. Discuss effective tactics with your spouse, and encourage each other as you sort things out together.8. Examine and adjust your expectations of yourself
Remember that you have a new infant who relies on you for every need. Let's get rid of any guilt associated with incomplete duties. It is critical to prioritise self-care and family time.9. Ask questions
We all have to learn how to be parents, no matter how much we know about children or ourselves before having a child. Be open to new experiences; you could find yourself revising some of your previous beliefs about motherhood!10. Remember who you once were
Some new parents believe they should not miss their previous "carefree" selves. It is natural to regret the past, even when the present is filled. Ask your pre-baby pals to keep in contact and be patient while you adapt to your new life. When the moment is perfect, resume some of your previous interests and activities. In the meantime, embrace the new, changing self.11. Be conscious of your sentiments and the whole spectrum of sensations associated with being a new parent
Parents may experience a variety of emotions, including worry, grief, and dread. Having various sentiments about new parenting is not humiliating and does not reflect on your ability to parent.If you have a partner, realise that both the relationship and the individual are developing. Although you may feel like you spend most of your time with the infant, try to spend some quality time alone with your spouse. Discuss your goals and anxieties, how things have changed, and what you want to stay the same.12. Babies gain from a variety of caring encounters
Feeding is not enough to care for and nurture a newborn. Spend time holding the baby, chatting with him, and developing your methods to communicate with him.13. Enjoy your baby
While a night spent with a colicky newborn may feel forever, the childhood years pass very swiftly. Every time your kid reaches each exciting milestone, he or she takes one more timid but eager step away from babyhood, and you take one more step towards being a confident, experienced parent. Relax. Breathe. Enjoy.14. Avoid comparisons
Every kid is different and unique. This will become more apparent when you have more children. Every kid has a unique temperament; some are gregarious, while others are quiet. You may have an easygoing or rowdy baby on your hands.15. Just breathe
Take a breath! Cry if you have to. It's going to be okay. Parenting is a huge responsibility, one of the most important you will ever have. It might have an emotional impact on you. It may cause anxiety or tension. You must never vent your aggravation on your infant.Medically approved by Dr. Shobha Gupta Medical Director, Gynecologist and IVF Specialist from Mother's Lap IVF Centre, New Delhi and VrindavanFAQs on Early Days of Parenthood: Tips for New Parents:
- What is some helpful advice for first-time parents?Accept help: whether it's a family member, friend, or neighbour, locate someone you can rely on to assist you in any manner.
- What is the most difficult month for a baby?The first three months with your infant are generally the most challenging. Sleep-deprived parents may feel overwhelmed, but this is normal, and you will soon learn to read your baby's indications and characteristics.
