Minimalist Parenting in Indian Cities: Do Babies Need so Much Stuff?

Indian parents often dream of providing more than necessary items for their babies. Though it’s their way of sharing love, it may lead to clutter and less mental growth. Minimalist parenting comes to the rescue. It follows the practice of buying essential items while prioritising quality over quantity. Learn how it benefits your child in multiple ways.

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Let’s start with debunking the infamous myth buzzing around every Indian parent! “The more we provide, the better our baby will grow”!

From fancy toys and gadgets to decorative clothes and strollers, parents really bombard their little ones with excessive items due to peer pressure and societal comparison. But is it really necessary? Do babies need much stuff?
The answer is simple - “No”!
Since the costs are high and space is limited in metropolitan cities, buying excessive items will lead to nothing but clutter. Furthermore, you might be surprised to know that your baby actually doesn’t need the “luxury”!
This is where the importance of Minimalist Parenting comes in!
It simply means buying essential things (your baby actually needs) and fostering a peaceful environment around your little one. Investing in the right essentials simplifies your baby’s routine, which helps them learn and grow at a proper pace.
Still not convinced? Let’s discuss the quintessential aspects of minimalist parenting in India.

Is Minimalism All About Decluttering?

In simple terms, “No”, minimalism is far beyond decluttering!
Though the term is not new, many people believe it’s solely about not buying unnecessary items and focusing on essentials. It’s just half the truth!
A clean house environment seems quite normal, but it can do wonders for your child’s development. Their developing brains are sensitive to sensory input. With a room full of noise, unused toys, and clothes, their brain receives abundant signals which obstruct their focus. Therefore, when a child sees limited objects, their patience levels develop, attention time strengthens, and they concentrate better. The moment you start focusing on the approach, you will begin to understand your baby’s behaviour and ultimately experience a deeper emotional bond.
Furthermore, when we reduce the clutter, we gradually become calmer and composed. Thus, it enhances our abilities to think on a broader level and shift our focus to our baby’s future. When your baby starts growing, they observe your conduct and start adopting it in their lifestyle, too.
To put it simply, when parents are mindful, children are more likely to be mindful.
Tip: Even if you own a big house, always stick to minimalism. It’s an ideal way to make your little one well-mannered, creative, and a better thinker.

What are the Benefits of Minimalist Parenting?

Though there could be multiple benefits of minimalist parenting, here are a few important ones that can drive people to follow the approach.

Huge Financial Saving

Simplicity is key, and that’s what we all have been taught since childhood. Time to teach your little ones, too! Inflation is already skyrocketing, and saving money is the need of the hour. When you value simple and essential things in your home, you’ll save money that can be later used to shape your kid’s future. Simply purchase the necessary items, such as apparel, diapers, feeding products, and a few useful toys, to declutter the space while enjoying significant financial savings.
Tip: Invest the money you save for your child’s future. They will thank you.

Supports Environment

Baby products, such as bottles and toys, are generally made of plastic materials, which can be a significant contributor to household waste. Thus, a minimalistic approach is the saviour in such a scenario. It facilitates the use of fewer yet eco-friendly materials, which can reduce the carbon footprint and ultimately benefit the environment. Always opt for cloth diapers and wooden toys to create a difference. Furthermore, when your child starts growing up, teach them the importance of environmental conservation as early as possible.
Tip: Prefer durable, biodegradable, and locally made toys and packaging for your baby.

Strengthen the Parent-Child Bond

Minimalist parenting ultimately boils down to strengthening the parent-child bond. Everything that you do will shape you and your baby’s future. When you follow the approach, you become relaxed, less rushed, and provide more time to your little one to understand their emotions deeply. How? Since you’re not exploring the latest toy shops on weekends, draining your energy to clean the household mess, and not getting irritated with your baby’s mood swings, you’re now available for your kid.
Tip: The more time you spend with your child, the stronger their trust in you will build.

What are the Tips for the Best Minimalist Parenting in India?

Here’s how you can make the most of minimalist parenting.

Think Before You Purchase

The basic step in minimalist parenting is to always consider whether you truly need a product or not. Simply ask yourself- Does my baby need it? Will it take too much space? When you’re clear about these questions, you can decide. Try to buy things gradually to avoid running into impulsive purchases later.

Buy Multi-Functional Items

No, it doesn’t mean you should buy cheap products for your baby! Instead, choose items that your kid can use for years. You can opt for a convertible crib that turns into a small bed. Furthermore, invest in a durable and comfortable chair that your little one can use for multiple years to come. It reduces unnecessary waste and keeps your home decluttered.

Go Outdoors

Though going digital is a trend and every kid should adopt it, parents should set a specific limit. Avoid getting engrossed in your smartphone for too long, unless there's something urgent. Remember that the way you live, your child follows the same path. Always prefer going to the park, playing sports with your child, or taking a short family trip to let your child experience the beauty of nature.
In simple terms, minimalist parenting is all about living peacefully with your baby and making life simpler. Following the tips mentioned above will help foster a calming home environment while saving money and strengthening the parent-child bond.

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FAQs on Minimalist Parenting in Indian Cities: Do Babies Need so Much Stuff?

  1. Is a minimalist parenting approach appropriate for all Indian families?
    Yes, minimalist parenting is suitable for all kinds of Indian families, irrespective of cultural backgrounds and size.
  2. Will my child become sad with fewer toys or fancy clothes?
    No, it’s a myth that your child feels sad with fewer toys or fancy clothes. The minimalist approach focuses on quality essentials, not unnecessary items. Thus, a few important toys will keep them happy.
Disclaimer: Dr Nikhat siddiqui, Senior Consultant - Obstetrics & Gynaecology, Apollo Spectra Hospital, Kanpur