Birth Plans in India: What to Ask for in Your Hospital or Maternity Centre

A birth plan isn’t a luxury. It’s a communication tool. But in India, where hospital protocols can be rigid and many families defer entirely to doctors, expectant mothers often don’t realise they’re allowed to ask for options. From pain relief to immediate skin-to-skin contact, this guide breaks down what you can and should discuss with your care team before labour starts.

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Your body may be carrying the baby, but in many Indian hospitals, decisions about your birth can be made around you, not with you. That’s where a birth plan comes in. Not as a rigid script, but as a set of informed preferences. It helps you and your care team align on how you’d ideally like your labour, delivery, and immediate postpartum to unfold.



Let’s break down what questions matter most and how to approach them clearly, calmly, and confidently.


What Is a Birth Plan and Why It Matters

A birth plan is a simple written document that outlines your preferences for labour, delivery, and newborn care. Think of it as a shared understanding between you, your doctor, and the hospital staff.

Having a birth plan:
  • Reduces miscommunication in high-stress moments
  • Clarifies your choices around pain relief, mobility, and consent
  • Helps your partner or support person advocate for you when you can't


Questions to Include in Your Birth Plan

Here are the key categories and sample questions to cover. Each section opens the door for collaborative decision-making. Ask early in your third trimester.

1. Labour Room Protocols

  • Will I have a private room or shared space?
  • Can I walk, move, or change positions during labour?
  • Am I allowed to eat or drink during early labour?
Why this matters: Mobility and food access can reduce stress hormones and improve labour progression, but many Indian hospitals still default to bed rest and fasting.

2. Support Person Policy

  • Can my partner or another support person be present throughout labour and birth?
  • If not, are there time-restricted visitation slots?
Why this matters: Emotional support is not just comforting. It’s proven to lower intervention rates and improve birth satisfaction.

3. Pain Relief Options

  • What forms of pain relief are available: epidural, Entonox (gas), warm compresses, breathing support?
  • Will I be consulted before any pain medication is administered?
Why this matters: Many mothers aren’t told what options exist unless they ask. Some hospitals offer epidurals only during certain hours or at extra cost.

4. Birth Position and Method

  • Am I allowed to give birth in a position of my choice (squatting, side-lying, all fours)?
  • What circumstances would lead to an emergency caesarean or forceps delivery?
Why this matters: Supine births are often standard in India, even though upright positions can improve outcomes. Understanding when interventions might happen prepares you better.

5. Consent and Communication

  • Will I be asked for consent before a vaginal exam, episiotomy, or C-section?
  • Can my partner be informed and involved in decision-making?
Why this matters: Routine episiotomies and vaginal exams are still common in India. Consent should be ongoing, not assumed.

6. Newborn Handling

Why this matters: These practices improve bonding, temperature regulation, and milk supply, but may be skipped unless specifically requested.

7. NICU or Special Care Protocol

  • If my baby needs NICU care, can I still initiate breastfeeding or provide expressed milk?
  • What visitation policies apply?
Why this matters: Knowing the protocol helps reduce fear if things don’t go as planned. Some hospitals isolate NICU babies for infection control without notifying the parents.

8. Postpartum Stay Preferences

  • Will my baby room-in with me or be kept in a nursery?
  • What is your policy on early discharge, especially after C-sections?
Why this matters: Rooming-in supports breastfeeding and bonding, but is not always standard. Clarify if 24-hour newborn access is available.


When Should You Discuss These Points?

Begin conversations by 28–30 weeks, and definitely finalise your birth plan by 36 weeks. You can:

  • Bring it to your routine check-up and walk through it point by point.
  • Ask your doctor to flag anything that may not be feasible in their facility.
  • Share a copy with the hospital staff during your pre-admission visit.
Make sure your partner or support person understands it well. They may need to speak on your behalf during active labour.


How Indian Hospitals Handle Birth Plans

Private urban hospitals are more familiar with birth plans than smaller government setups. Even so, implementation varies:

  • Some treat them as formal documents and attach them to your medical file.
  • Others see them as optional and informal, but will still respect them if discussed in advance.
  • In very rigid systems, even respectful requests may be overridden in emergencies, but having a record of your preferences still helps.


How to Handle Pushback

If a doctor or staff member dismisses your plan:
  • Stay calm and ask for clarification: “Can you help me understand why this may not be possible?”
  • Document your understanding and ask for confirmation: “So, epidurals are available only from 10 AM to 6 PM. Noted.”
  • Consider switching hospitals if your values are clearly not aligned, and you're early enough in pregnancy to move care.


Practical Tips for Creating Your Plan

  • Keep it one page. Use bullet points.
  • Translate into the local language if needed.
  • Print 2–3 copies for the hospital file, your bag, and your partner.
  • Include your emergency contacts, allergies, and blood group at the top.
Birth doesn’t have to be something that just happens to you. With the right preparation, you can have a voice, even in a system that often prioritises efficiency over empathy. A clear, respectful birth plan lets your caregivers know what matters to you and gives you the confidence to step into labour with awareness, not fear.


FAQs on Birth Plans in India: What to Ask for in Your Hospital or Maternity Centre

  1. Do hospitals in India accept birth plans?
    Yes, particularly in private hospitals in urban areas. Government hospitals may be less receptive, but respectful discussion still matters.
  2. Will my plan be followed exactly?
    Not always. Emergencies or staff shortages can change things. But having a plan improves the chances of your wishes being heard.
  3. Can I ask for no episiotomy unless medically necessary?
    Yes. You have the right to informed consent. Make this request early and get clarity on the hospital’s default approach.
  4. Should I still make a plan if I want a C-section?
    Absolutely. Your preferences on anaesthesia, skin-to-skin, and newborn handling still matter.
Disclaimer: Medically approved by Dr Manisha Kulkarni, Sr. Consultant – OBGYN and IVF, Sahyadri Hospitals Momstory, Hadapsar, Pune.