We reached out to Dr Soumya Lakshmi T V, Senior Consultant, Obstetrics and Gynaecology, Aster CMI Hospital, Bangalore, for more information.
Taking Immediate Steps When There Is a Threat
In case there is an immediate threat, it is necessary to seek a safe place and contact trustworthy relatives, health-care professionals, or local authorities. Some actions can be taken immediately in this case:- Seeking a safe place (a room in the house, a neighbour's apartment, or some other place)
- Contacting a trustworthy relative or a friend who will be able to give immediate help
- Contacting local authorities in case of an immediate threat of harm
- Contacting a doctor or a hospital, which can provide medical assistance and a place to stay safe
Support From a Gynaecologist
Even a gynaecologist will be able to assess the mother and baby, document injuries when necessary, and give them medical support and link them up to counselling.
None of this necessitates that the woman has already made up her mind about anything. This support is available at any point in time.
Developing a Greater Support Network
Apart from safety and immediate healthcare services, other support services include:- A person within your family or someone close to you who knows about the situation and can visit you from time to time
- Counselling services to help you in emotional healing
- Legal services that would help women understand what can be done
- Local support services, including one-stop centres that are being established in many Indian states, that offer medical, legal, and counselling services under one roof
Safety and Growth, Together
Providing care for a pregnant woman does not mean only keeping track of the fetus’ development. The security of the woman and her good health play an equally important role, because a woman’s security directly impacts the course of pregnancy.The recognition of the problem and proper assistance may become the way out to ensure better security in the future. A single talk with a professional doctor can be just the start of the process.
When Should a Doctor Be Consulted?
The doctor should be involved in any of the following situations:- There was some kind of injury, either a new one or an old one that a woman would like to assess
- There is a need for medical help along with help to deal with an unsafe situation at home
- Advice on how to find counselling or legal services is sought
- There is a need to talk confidentially about what is going on at home
- It is not clear what action should be taken next
No woman who experiences family violence during her pregnancy should handle the situation alone. There are reliable people, doctors, and special services for precisely such cases.
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FAQs on Where to Turn: Getting Help for Family Violence During Pregnancy
- Is it possible to seek help without leaving the relationship right away?
Yes, one can seek medical assistance, counselling or just information without having to decide anything about the relationship immediately. - Is it okay to inform my doctor if I am being abused?
Yes. Doctors are trained to have such a discussion. Many antenatal sessions have an option for privacy during which you can talk to the doctor alone if necessary. You can also be referred to counsellors or other assistance. - How will I know that I am experiencing family violence?
There is more to family violence than physical attacks. Emotional abuse, threats, controlling actions, financial abuse, and isolation from family or friends can all be forms of family violence. When you are scared, controlled, or feel unsafe at home, seeking help might be a good idea.